Indlela Ukuphola Nakuba Akaqashiwe

Igcine ukubuyekezwa: uJan. 20 2021 | 3 imiz ufunde

Siphila ezweni lapho kwemisebenzi uphakeme emazweni amaningi kangaka emhlabeni wonkhe. Kodwa-ke noma ngabe kunale nkinga yendawo yonke ezimpilweni zabantu lapho ngokudabukisayo kusekhona ukungazi nokubandlulula abantu abangasebenzi ikakhulukazi labo asebeke basebenza isikhashana. Futhi lokhu ubandlululo kanye nokuntuleka ukuqonda kungaba inkinga enkulu uma kuziwa ezweni dating.

Ukugcizelela igama eliyisihluthulelo emhlabeni wokuqomisana futhi yilokho sonke esizama ukukwenza ngandlela thile ngosuku noma ngabe sisebenzisa ubuhlakani bethu bemvelo, ukugqoka ngendlela ethile, noma sikhuluma ngomlando wethu wokuqashwa kodwa inkinga ngalokhu esimweni somnotho esikhona njengamanje ukuthi sizothola abantu abacabanga ukuthi singama “Sponges” noma “Siyavilapha” ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi asibanga nenhlanhla ababa nayo ekutholeni umsebenzi. Bayoba uxabana of course ukuthi basebenza kanzima ukuze uthole umsebenzi kodwa iphuzu kangaka abe nani kanjalo ifika phansi luck ukuthi umqashi ocabanga ukuthi wena osifanele noma cha. No more than ukuthi. Just umbono lomuntu.

I ubengasebenzi iminyaka emine ezinzima sezulu nezomnotho Ireland manje futhi Ngesaba sitshele ubani Ngangithanda ukuthi mina ubengasebenzi ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi zingathini of me. Kepha ngaphandle kokwesaba kwethu, kunabantu laphaya abaziqondayo ukuthi umhlaba unjani. Ngikhumbula betshela a guy engangiwuthanda ukuthi ngangikade abangasebenzi iminyaka emine futhi kwaba cool ngempela nalo. Empeleni, akakaze ashaye nejwabu leso ngakho futhi lokho kwaba ngesinye sezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ngamthanda. Wayenomusa, ukuqonda futhi wayengekho wahlulela abanye.

Kunjalo, akubona bonke abafana abanje futhi ngifisela bonke abesilisa nabesifazane laphaya ukuthi babeyikho. Ngahlangana umfana engangimthanda futhi ngezwa naye ukhuluma ngabantu abangasebenzi ngendlela komzimba ongakhangi. Uyazi evamile comments snobbish like "Sponger". Ngakho iqiniso ngesikhathi sithanda ukucabanga yibo emuhle uyohlale non-uyabahlulela akulona iqiniso njalo. Futhi kunzima uma kunjalo kufanelekile kangaka they cishe ancibilike jeans zabo Skinny!

Uma ukuthandana nomuntu othile umbono abanobandlululo ngabantu abangasebenzi futhi wena ngokwakho noma bebelokhu abangasebenzi kungaba isimo eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ukuthola komuntu self in. Kodwa kufanele ukhumbule uzihlonipha. Iqiniso lokuthi wena noma balahlekelwa imisebenzi nje ingxenye wena. It asichazi wena. Akukho ukwehluleka in it njengoba nje nazi ukuthi uzama okusemandleni akho.

Lapho ngithola izifundo zami kwangisiza ukuba ngizizwe ngikhululeke ngokwengeziwe ezimeni lapho kwakuzodingeka ngichaze engikwenzayo kodwa uma uke waba nesikhathi eside ungasebenzi lowo muzwa wokuzibuza ukuthi bengikwenzani ngaphambili lokho kusakukhathaza futhi iqiniso ukuthi akufanele.

Udinga ukuba bangene ukuthi usuku ikhanda lakho waliphakamisa. Angase abe umsebenzi. You may not. Kungenzeka wasebenza konke ukuphila kwakhe, ungase ube ngeke. Kusho lutho. Uyindoda nje wena nje indoda noma owesifazane futhi une ilungelo okuningi ukusho ukuthi uthanda futhi senze njani wena uthanda (Kuncike it inhlonipho of course!) futhi uzizwe njengoba ebalulekile njengoba enza ngoba Ngiyakutshela ukuthi Mister and Missus wena!


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