Uma Ingabe The "Right Time" ukuqomisana New?

Igcine ukubuyekezwa: uJan. 26 2021 | 3 imiz ufunde

Ukuchitheka Kwemishado aqinile. Kungakhathaliseki ngubani uphela ubuhlobo noma kungani yaphela, kungaba isikhathi ngokomzwelo kulandela ukuphela partnership. Ngakho uzithola olulodwa uphinde lonke ukuphola emhlabeni bangazizwa kancane obuqand baqale.

Zikhona izikhathi ungase uzibuze lapho kufanele uqala nothile aphinde futhi kuyadabukisa, alikho ikhambi elilula kulokhu nkinga. Everyone deals with breakups at their own pace so there is no specific timeline to follow in regard to pursuing a new relationship after a breakup.

Ngakho wena sesikulungele ukuqala ubuhlobo obusha, ingasaphathwa isiqalo dating? Nanka amathiphu ambalwa ukukusiza ukwazi uma sisendleleni eqondile:

Zinike isikhathi

Angisona gonna amanga-to ncela. You might want to curl up into the fetal position on your couch with a pint of ice cream and Netflix for the company for a while. Ukuzinika isikhathi lusizi ekupheleni ubuhlobo kuyinto evamile. Uma kuziwa imizwa esindayo like benhliziyo, kungase kuthathe isikhathi esithile ukuze amanxeba akho. Ukubhekana ukuhlukana ngendlela enempilo futhi ovuthiwe kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana futhi siqhubekele phambili ekuphileni kwakho.

Sebenza wena

Ngokuvamile lapho ubudlelwano ukuqeda usele ngemibuzo konke. Konakalaphi? Ingabe it iphutha lami? Yini engangingayenza ehlukile? Misa ukujezisa wena ubuhlobo bakho bahlulekile ayeke ukudlala umdlalo basola, njengoba Ngeke uzizwe ungcono. Ukwamukela ukuthi ubuhlobo akusebenzanga futhi hhayi abalibala on imizwa yokuzisola uzokusiza qhubeka. Ukufunda emaphutheni kuyindlela engcono kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi yini oyifunayo ubuhlobo nalokho ngeke.

Thatha lesi sikhathi ukuzama ukuthuthukisa wena zama izinto ezintsha. Ever kwadingeka wokuzilibazisa ubungase nesithakazelo kodwa ungalokothi wazama? Now is a perfect time! Thatha inkambo ulimi, volunteer at a charity event, or even run a marathon. Okukhethwa akupheli. Try something new that makes you happy and just focus on yourself.

Sika bonke ubuhlobo nothile ex yakho

Abanye abantu bayakwazi ukuhlala abangane ngemuva kokuhlukana, kodwa uma uthola ukuthi nje ngeke uthole phezu kwabo bese ugcine uzama ukulungisa izinto, ungase ufune ukusika bonke oxhumana nabo, ngisho uma nje yesikhashana. Kunzima qhubeka lapho niqhubeka ukuzinika ithemba bamanga ukuthi kusekuningi ithuba ukuvuselela ubuhlobo. Kukhona kwesikhathi ngomgwaqo ukuba babe abangane, kodwa lapho kokuhlukana kusekusha engqondweni yakho, kungase kube nje lula ukugcina kude.

Gwema Rebound ngiphelile

The Paradigm ubuhlobo Rebound umkhuba wokuthi kudingeka basuswe ngokushesha. Ungase uzitshele lobu buhlobo ngeke kube Rebound ejwayelekile, kodwa angase ngaleyo ndlela vele, naphezu kwemizamo yakho emihle. Ungase namanje ngesibalo ubuhlobo bakho last futhi zonke imizwa esindayo abathintekayo, ngakho bangase babe udideke ngokuletha leyo mizwa ubudala ebuhlotsheni obusha.

Uma kuziwa Abuya flings (I.E. ocansini nabalingani okungahleliwe, abangani abanezinzuzo, njll), kufanele nje igwenywe. A kumane nje kuyindaba yenjabulo okusheshayo kubonakale sengathi kuyisu elihle, kodwa akuzona nje. Ukusebenzisa ubulili nomuntu ongathandani njengendlela yokuthola kokuzizwa kancane lonely ngemuva kokuhlukana ivame ukuba nomphumela ophambene; uyobe ngaphezu cishe uzizwa nakakhulu emva konke Kuthiwa futhi kwenziwa. Zisindise ubuhlungu benhliziyo extra futhi sidlule phezu ubuhlobo Rebound / flings.

You ngempela uzizwe ukulungele siqhubekele phambili

Uma akusadingeki elibala imizwa yothando kanye nokulahlekelwa towards ex yakho, sebeyekile ngokweqile ngibheka page yabo Facebook (ungenzi sengathi awunalo), futhi wayeka ukuzinika ithemba ukubuyisana ungase ukulungele ukuya phambili.

Ningabalaleli labo abaseduze nina akutshele lapho kufanele uqale nithandana aphinde ngoba leso sinqumo ekugcineni kuwe. Lapho ekugcineni uzizwa lungela ukuhlangabezana umuntu omusha kulapho kufanele uqale ukuphola. This is your life, phela, so don’t try to appease your friends and family by hopping back into the dating game when you are just not ready yet.


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