Ayi mphyakuthema amam'konda wokwatira?

Pali akazi ambiri amene amam'konda amuna okwatira mwangozi, pamene ena ambiri mwadala kufunafuna amuna okwatira chifukwa chongofuna kusangalala (pun anafuna) wokhala ndi munthu amene mwaukadaulo zosagwiritsidwa likupezeka. Komabe, funso nthawizonse akhala ngati ndi bwino kugwa m'chikondi ndi mwamuna wokwatira?

Kugwa kwa mwamuna zingaoneke pomwe, makamaka ngati munthu anena iwo mumadana komanso. Kuphatikiza apo, mkaziyo ngati vutolo likhoza kupeza wabodza otetezeka kuti munthu posachedwapa olekana ndi mkazi, kotero kuti chibwenzi maluwa mosadodometsedwa. Komabe, ndi fallacy, kuti ayenera unagwa kwathunthu pa zifukwa zotsatirazi.

Women ayenera kuphunzira kulemekeza okha

Mwamuna ndi banja sangathenso kupereka mkazi wosangalala kukhala mmoyo ubwenzi. Ngakhale munthu kutenga nthawi kumusamalira ndi chisamaliro, kukonda, ndi mphatso, choonadi, izo sizidzasintha chinthu!

Mkazi ngati ameneyu ayenera kuyesetsa okha mu nsapato za mkazi wa mwamuna. Kodi akuona ngati mkazi wina anachita chimodzimodzi kwa iwo? Ngati iwo okha kulemekeza, ndiye iwo ayenera kumvetsa kuti chinthu chokha chimene iwo adzakhala akuchita awononge banja, ndipo si chizindikiro mkazi aliyense akufuna, Ndikukhulupirira!

Amuna sadzatisiya konse akazi awo

Ngakhale anthu kuimba mobwerezabwereza kuti kupatukana akazi awo posachedwapa kuti akhoza weniweni ubwenzi wake watsopano anapeza chikondi, izo sizinayambe zichitike. Ngati anthu amaona akazi amene amagwirizana kukhala ndi ubale ndi iwo, podziwa kuti mabanja, Ndiyeno amuna kulowa ndi zolinga zake zakuthupi. Pamenepa, Ndithu amafuna kukhala ndi udindo-quo, chifukwa sadzakhala akufuna kusiya mabanja awo.

Taganizirani banja la munthuyo

Women, osakhala odzikonda! Musanasankhe kukhala paubwenzi ndi wokwatira, kumbukirani banja kuti akupita kuti uwonongedwe. Zinthu aziwonjezereka ngati pali ana kumatanthauza. Ana Ndithu kukhala koipa bwanji ngati munthu wasankha kuwasiya. Ndipo tiyeni Musaiwale mkazi, amene akhoza owonongeka moyo.

Ngati chifukwa china chirichonse, Ndiyeno banja ayenera kukhulupirira mkaziyo kuti si bwino kugwa m'chikondi ndi mwamuna.

Women sayenera kukhazikika zosakwana oyeneradi

N'chifukwa padziko lapansi, kodi wokongola, wanzeru ndi anzeru mkazi ndikufuna kukhazikika pa munthu amene sangathe kukhala odzipereka mu weniweni ubwenzi, chifukwa munthu anakwatira? Kodi si mkazi woteroyo bwinoko kufunafuna pabanja adzakhala kwathunthu wodzipereka kwa kukhala weniweni ubwenzi? Women ayenera kalembedwe ndi kukhulupirira mwa iwo okha ndi maluso pofuna kukopa wosakwatira, amene angathe nawo chibwenzi popanda zoyembekezako.

Ndi bwino kumva chisoni kuswa chikondi chisa

Chikondi kwambiri zovuta mtima kulamulira. Monga mmene mkazi akhoza moona kwambiri kukonda mwamuna, mfundo ndi yakuti chibwenzi si wakuti kulikonse. Pachifukwa ichi, ndi bwino kuthetsa izo mwamsanga, osati Patapita, kuti mokwanira nthawi yochiritsa. Onetsetsani kuti sikudzakhala kophweka nthawi zonse, koma chidzakhala choyenera pamapeto.

Musati ndi zochita za maganizo a ena

A mkazi chibwenzi ndi mwamuna adzaweruzidwa ndi ena onse ngodya. Mkazi, Motero, ayenera kukhala amphamvu ndi kusiya ndi munthu chifukwa ndi chinthu choyenera kuchita. Kuphatikiza apo, ndi kwa mkazi phindu kuswa izo, kuti athe kukumana munthu amene angathe mokwanira odzipereka ndi ubwenzi.

Musati funsani munthu chifukwa chirichonse

Kamodzi mkazi chitatha ndi wokwatira, ndiye m'pofunika kuthetsa uliwonse kucheza ndi munthu. Mkazi ayenera kusintha ziwanda nambala yomwe ntchito kukumana ndi munthu. Ichi chidzakhala chiyambi cha lipole.

Palibe amene angathe kulamulira amene iye amam'konda, Komabe, ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti si bwino kugwa m'chikondi ndi mwamuna. Pa kakalata, anthu akazi amene ali kale mu chikondi ndi amuna okwatira, ake nthawi yopuma pamwamba!


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