Kodi Dateable?

Kusintha komaliza: Jan. 05 2018 | 3 Mph kuwerenga

A mndandanda wa njira kudziwa nokha pang'ono bwino, kupanga inu "ndi lotta pokha" zambiri dateable

Cholakwa ambiri anthu awo chibwenzi miyoyo sukhala ndi maganizo abwino amene iwo, okha, ali. Zingaoneke counterintuitive, koma pamene inu mwachangu kuyesera kupeza bwenzi ndi chimodzi cha zinthu zina kuganizira wekha ndi zimene zimapangitsa inu “Mafunso Chongani”. Women, kuposa anthu, sachedwa “Ndimakonda Kaya Mukufuna”-Syndrome (mwinamwake chifukwa achezera chikhalidwe amayembekezera kuti akazi akuyenera kukhala otha, amorphous amene akusowa zawo zofuna), kwenikweni chifukwa mu ngwosakhutiritsa ndipo unfulfilling ubwenzi kwambiri; ndi zodabwitsa, tangotaya nthawi yathu ndi mkwiyo pa wina ndi “zinasintha”, pa zikachitika.

Mmodzi wa ndimaikonda mawu amapita motere–kodi munthu wina akuyenera kumadziwa ndi kukukondani, ngati simukudziwa ndi kukukondani? Pakuika kudziwa nokha amalola kudziwa ndendende zimene inu kubweretsa tebulo, ndipo mosavuta lanu Zabwino wina kuzindikira mzake ndi anakopeka makhalidwe Sapita kusintha ndi gulu lako kapena ndi zaka.

Monga Shel Silverstein analemba mu ndakatulo, “Masks”:

Iye anali buluu khungu
Pamodzi ndi iye
Iye anapitiriza ilo
Pamodzi ndi iye
Ankafufuza buluu
Moyo wawo wonse kudzera
Kenako anadutsa kumene–
Ndipo sindinkadziwa

Pano pali njira kudziwa ndi kukukondani, kuti winawake angathe, Ifenso!

1. Tengani nokha

Uyu kuwinduka kuzungulira osiyanasiyana ndi myriad “odzithandiza” gurus, Mabuku, ndi magulu a amayi. Anthu ambiri amaganiza za izo mu mawu a chakudya, zimenezi mantha ndi zovuta ngati simunakhala adadya pagulu nokha pamaso. Zingakhale aliyense outing kwambiri, bola n'kosangalatsa ndi chinachake mumasangalala–filimu (kamodzi magetsi kutsikira, palibe lolunjika pa amene ali yekha), masewero a mpira, kapena mwinamwake ulendo kwinakwake latsopano.

2. Kodi mukufuna kuchita Today?

Ena ufulu nthawi? Kusiya kwa mphindi ndi blatantly dzifunseni kodi inu kukondwa yomweyo–ndiyeno izo! Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa njira kwambiri yosavuta komanso zothandiza kuti nyimbo za phokoso la moyo ndi kusiya mwa mawere mu Facebook kapena TV. Komanso akutsegula iwe kuti ambiri mwachisawawa, zamatsenga amatsutsa ndipo motsatana, ndi kuchita kuti anthu ambiri kuposa mungafune, mosaganizira ndi mosalingalira kupha nthawi. Mu ndondomekoyi, mupeza kuti simuyenera munthu pamodzi kukhala osangalala–mungakhale osangalala ndi mosadziletsa ndi kukhala watanthauzo ndi mumasankha.

3. Funsani Mumacheza

Ichi ndi mtundu wa elaboration wa otchuka Facebook ntchito kupempha anthu kuti afotokoze ku mtengo ndi mawu ofotokoza chithunzi. Koma mukhoza kuphunzira za nokha, kapena za anthu kulingalira ndi chidwi nokha, pofunsa anzanu momwe iwo akhoza kufotokoza inu. Izi zidzathandiza kuti kuwaunikira “Inu” kuti inu kupereka kwa dziko, choncho masiku. Mwina, ndi zambiri, izi likufanana ndi zimene mumakhulupirira amadzipweteka anu enieni. Koma ngati mosadziwa amaona kukhala ndi khalidwe wosiyana kuposa zimene mukudziwa woona za inu–izi zikhoza kukhala kuonetsa ngati chingwe zinalephera, zosokoneza ubwenzi.

4. Yesani Zinthu Zatsopano

Ichi ndi mtundu wa zomenyanazo #2. M'malo kuchitira nokha chinachake chimene ndikudziwa inu mukufuna kuchita, kuchita chinachake kwathunthu latsopano! Never mukukwera kavalo pamaso? Pezani kampani imene amapereka zosavuta njira wakwera. Ine sindikanati Muzilalikira kuchita chilichonse chimene mantha mathalauza pa inu, chifukwa–pamene kuti akhoza kuwakopera madeti–mantha akhoza kusokoneza ku aziona chinthu chachilendo. Kumapeto kwa tsiku, mudzakhala olekanitsidwa moyo zomwe zimathandiza chimatanthauza inuyo ndi zofuna, ndipo mwina wina luso ndi kukambirana mfundo kubweretsa tebulo.

Kukhala lingaliro ndi chidaliro kudzikonda ndi wokongola. Mwa kukulitsa kuzindikira kuti kudzilemekeza, mudzakhala wosangalala, kwambiri kukwaniritsidwa munthu ndipo mudzapeza kuti kuli kupereka kwa chibwenzi; panopa, inu mudzayenera zambiri zosangalatsa kudziwa za inu kuti ndinu zonse.


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