Ingabe Dateable?

A uhlu izindlela ukumazi wena kancane kancane kangcono, okwenza wena "kancane Lotta" dateable more

The iphutha abantu abaningi benza in dating ukuphila kwabo is hhayi kokuba umqondo omuhle of bangobani, ngokwabo, kukhona. Kungase kubonakale counterintuitive, kodwa uma akhe bazama ukuthola umlingani one of the best izikhathi ukugxila wena yini ekwenza “lokumaka”. Women, ngaphezu amadoda, ezithandwa “I Like You Like Whatever”-Syndrome (mhlawumbe ngenxa elibala okulindelwe namasiko ukuthi abesifazane kufanele kube nezimo, ones amorphous entula izithakazelo zabo siqu), ekugcineni kuphumele ubuhlobo abanelisi futhi hippie at best; kanye lezimanga, udlale ngesikhathi nentukuthelo at the omunye umuntu kokuba “zishintshile”, neze.

Omunye amazwi ami oyintandokazi uya into enjengale–is omunye engabe kanjani ukuba sazi futhi sithande wena, uma ungazi futhi ngikuthanda? Ukusebenzisa ngokwazi ngokwakho ikuvumela ukuba wazi kahle hle ukuthi yini wena ulethe itafula, futhi kwenza kube lula ngawe futhi One yakho Right to aqaphele nomunye futhi ikhangwa izimfanelo Ngeke ushintshe enkampanini yakho noma iminyaka.

Njengoba Shel Silverstein uyabhala in inkondlo yakhe, “Buso”:

Yena kwakufanele isikhumba blue
Futhi kanjalo yena
Walugcina wafihla
Futhi wayecabanga kanjalo
Bafuna blue
Ukuphila kwabo yonke ngokusebenzisa
Khona wadlula kulungile–
Futhi ngingamazi

Nazi ezinye izindlela ukuba azi futhi ngikuthanda, ukuze omunye umuntu can, too!

1. Thatha Yourself Out

Lona emaceleni bezungeza by various futhi inqwaba “zokuzisiza” gurus, izincwadi, kanye namaqembu yabesifazane. Abantu ngokuvamile abacabanga ngakho mayelana dinner, okungaba kwangethusa benamahloni futhi bengakufanelekeli uma ungazange edla ezindaweni zomphakathi yedwa phambi. Ngakho-ke kungaba kuzikhipha eziphawulekayo, njengoba nje kumnandi futhi entweni oyithandayo–a movie (once izibani yehle, akekho egxile ehlezi yedwa), a game ibhola, noma mhlawumbe uhambo day endaweni ethile entsha.

2. Ufunani To Do Today?

Yiba isikhathi khulula? Misa umzuzu owodwa ngamabomu zibuze ukuthi yini engakwenza ujabule khona lapho–bese hamba ukwenze! Lena ngenye yezindlela ezilula kakhulu futhi ngempumelelo ukuba bacishe umsindo wokuphila futhi ayeke ukuchitha isikhathi ngokubhapathizwa ukusivumela Facebook noma ithelevishini. Iphinde kuvula kwakho kuze kube yileso okungahleliwe abaningi abengeziwe, esonta umlingo badedelane, nokuhlangabezana ukuthi abantu abaningi ngaphezu ubungeke ube, ngokungacabangi kanye ngokungazi kwashona isikhathi. In the inqubo, uzothola ukuthi awudingi umuntu kanye ukuba happy–wena ingajabula yokuzitika ngokuba okunenjongo izinqumo zakho.

3. Cela abangani bakho

Lena hlobo i kwenaba ethandwa umsebenzi Facebook ngibuza abantu ukukhuluma neThe iposi igama elichaza iphosta. Kodwa ungakwazi uzazi, noma okungenani mayelana umphakathi ucabange futhi umbono ngokwakho, ngokucela abangane bakho Babekhuphukela ukuchaza kwakho. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuba kukhanyisa “You” ukuthi wena ethula emhlabeni, ngakhoke nezinsuku. Kungenzeka, futhi cishe, lokhu kufana nalokho enikholelwa ukuthi yiyona self sakho esiqotho. Kodwa uma ungahlosile waqonda njengoba kokuba umlingisi ehlukile kunaleyo lokho wazi kuyiqiniso ngawe–lokhu kungenzeka nokubonisa njengoba string of akuphumelelanga, ubudlelwano udideke.

4. Zama Izinto New

Lona uhlobo okuphambene #2. Esikhundleni sokuphatha ngokwakho ngento oyaziyo ukuthi uzoyithanda ukwenza, ukwenza okuthile okusha ngokuphelele! Ungalokothi wagibela ihhashi ngaphambi? Thola inkampani enikeza lula indlela ugibele. Bengingeke-advocate ukwenza noma yini kuyabethusa ibhulukwe off kwakho, ngoba–kanti lokho kungase kudonse dates–Ukumesaba kwakho kungase kusiphazamise kusuka ukukwazi ukujabulela yinto entsha. Ekupheleni yosuku, uyobe baye baphawula enye nakho ukuphila esisiza ichaze wena kanye izithakazelo zakho, futhi ungase ube omunye ikhono kanye nengxoxo iphuzu ukuletha etafuleni.

Ukuba nomuzwa beqiniseka Ukuzithanda ezikhangayo. Ngokuhlakulela umuzwa wakho self, uzobe ojabula, more kwagcwaliseka umuntu futhi kuyomelwe kakhulu ukunikela ebuhlotsheni; futhi okwamanje, uzoba kumnandi ukwazi kini ukuthi wena konke mayelana.


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